Memorial Day is when we remember those we’ve lost. My hometown of New Bedford lost many men at sea during whaling or fishing. Many were lost in the 1800s. The 1900s lost its share as well – hard-working, adventurous men providing the manpower and skill necessary to bring back to port whales and fish for which New Bedford was and still is well known. Last Friday I attended a ribbon cutting ceremony at the renovated New Bedford Seamen’s Bethel now joined to the Mariners’ Home. According to the plaque outside the Home, “Whaling men spent much of their lives at sea. The ship was their home. Back in port, most of the poor, unskilled sailors knew no one in New Bedford and were essentially homeless until the next voyage. In 1850 the daughter of William Rotch, Jr. donated her father’s home to shelter and feed needy seamen. After the whaling industry declined, retired whalemen, merchant seamen, and fishermen lived here. The Mariners’ Home provides lodging for mariners to thi