Today’s first reading is hard to swallow for any man who has lost his wife from illness, accident, or old age. Consider that Ezekiel said, “The word of the LORD came to me: Son of man, by a sudden blow I am taking away from you the delight of your eyes , but do not mourn or weep or shed any tears. Groan in silence, make no lament for the dead, bind on your turban, put your sandals on your feet, do not cover your beard, and do not eat the customary bread. That evening my wife died …” Few men would ever claim, “God purposefully took my wife away,” although some might simply say, “It was God’s will.” I say, “Balderdash!” I much prefer to believe, in a metaphorical way, that God weeps with me and shares my lament. And why not?! My wife and I were both made in the image and likeness of God, and through our marriage we were both of one flesh. Like any good, constant, and compassionate companion, the Holy Spirit within shares my broken-heartedness and is the love within me offeri