Forgiveness

Tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus, but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying, "This man welcomes sinners and eats with them." So to them Jesus addressed this parable. "A man had two sons, and the younger son said to his father, 'Father, give me the share of your estate that should come to me.' So the father divided the property between them. 

After a few days, the younger son collected all his belongings and set off to a distant country where he squandered his inheritance on a life of dissipation. When he had freely spent everything, a severe famine struck that country, and he found himself in dire need. So he hired himself out to one of the local citizens who sent him to his farm to tend the swine. And he longed to eat his fill of the pods on which the swine fed, but nobody gave him any. Coming to his senses he thought, 'How many of my father's hired workers have more than enough food to eat, but here am I, dying from hunger. I shall get up and go to my father and I shall say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as you would treat one of your hired workers."' So he got up and went back to his father.

While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him. His son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son.' But his father ordered his servants, 'Quickly, bring the finest robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Take the fattened calf and slaughter it. Then let us celebrate with a feast, because this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost, and has been found.' Then the celebration began.

Now the older son had been out in the field and, on his way back, as he neared the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing. He called one of the servants and asked what this might mean. The servant said to him, 'Your brother has returned and your father has slaughtered the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.' He became angry, and when he refused to enter the house, his father came out and pleaded with him. He said to his father in reply, 'Look, all these years I served you and not once did I disobey your orders; yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends. But when your son returns who swallowed up your property with prostitutes, for him you slaughter the fattened calf.'

He said to him, 'My son, you are here with me always; everything I have is yours. But now we must celebrate and rejoice, because your brother was dead and has come to life again; he  was lost and has been found.'" (Luke 15:1-3, 11-32)

I always wonder what the older brother said after hearing his father’s explanation.  The prodigal son returned, and the older son had every right to be angry about his brother’s disrespectful behavior. Moreover, the father apparently never gave his older son, who served him over many years without complaining, praise in the form of a young goat for feasting.  I’d be looking at my brother, who swallowed up the father’s property with prostitutes, with a venomous look.  Oh well, to forgive is divine, but I’m not.  Are you?

The returning son is a resurrection of sorts.  The father said, “Your brother was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.” Unfortunately, many of us would prefer to have our brother remain dead and lost.  Refusing to forgive is a sort of death sentence, and we wield the sword.  

This Lent let’s focus on forgiveness.  Let’s pray that our hearts warm and soften enabling us to forgive even egregious sins.  Let us pray.

Let’s fast from anger and envy that twist our souls making us let the demons into our hearts.  Forgiveness becomes very challenging.  Let us fast.

Let’s give generously of our time to those needing support and healing from the wounds inflicted on them by family and friends, even us.  We need to ask for forgiveness and give up our egos making us feel we are right, when we are wrong.  Let us give.

Lent is a time for prayer, fasting, and giving.  Just do it!

Deacon David Pierce